This is the best book on seduction ever! Some reviewers argue that Greene doesn’t make the seductive process clear enough and that these tactics will not work in every situation. Well, you can’t seduce everyone, but I find that whether you suceed or fail usually depends on your observation skills and on how well you implement the tactics. You have to be innovative. No one book can tell you how to seduce every single person in every single situation. For example, one reviewer said that these tactics will not help you seduce someone you’re already friends with. Yes you can–I’ve done it twice! The key is getting the person to see you in a new light:
Step 1. Put distance between you and your target. Don’t tell her you’re distancing yourself, just do it! If your friend likes you she will miss you. If she was just saying “Let’s be friends” and doesn’t care for you at all, she’ll still feel your absence because your loss of interest will wound her ego–that’s important.
Step 2. Be different. Alter your appearance, make friends with new types of people, sculpt your body, develop new interests, and date as many people as you can. Try to date only those who are at least as attractive as your target, otherwise she’ll look down on you.
Step 3. Reintroduce yourself to your target. Don’t approach her directly. It’s important that she now come to you. If you haven’t talked to her in a while, she may have forgotten about you. That’s not necessarily a bad thing–maybe the old you was forgettable. But it’s a good idea to have maintained an indirect connection with your girl. Maybe you are an aquaintance of one of her friends. Chat with that person occasionally (Don’t mention the friend you’ll be seducing!) and that person will probably give your target updates about you. Or maybe you work in the same office or have the same circle of friends. In that case, she can witness changes in you first hand. Remember, however, that if you have to see your target regularly it is all the more important to maintain an emotional distance until you’re ready for the seduction to really begin. If your girl suspects that you’re improving yourself for her or that you’re trying to make her jealous, all your hard work will be destroyed.
Now you can reintroduce yourself in one of several ways:
a) Haunt her periphery by attending the places she attends without taking much notice of her, making her come to you.
b) Play the “coquette,” seeming interested then disinterested, interested then disinterested.
c) arrange a “chance” meeting. I like this one.
d) befriend or date a friend of hers.
Once she starts to think she didn’t know you as well as she thought she did and displays a little interest in the new you, you can start over again and use the tactics in Greene’s book. Greene’s book never outlined how to seduce someone you’ve been friends with for a long time. I devised this strategy based on the tactics outlined in “The Art of Seduction.” Like I said, it’s work twice for me. The first friend became so enamoured that I had to break up with her after only a few weeks. She was smothering me! But I am still dating the second girl and it’s great. If you balk at the idea of doing all this just to win someone over, consider that she may not be worth winning over after all, or that you might not be much of a Casanova. But I think that all this effort will actually make you a better man (or woman since this strategy should work on a guy too.) Happy hunting!
Source: A customer on Amazon
Very interesting!